About Us

Bender Mixology Services is proudly woman-owned and operated by Kelsie Bender, the bold creative force behind the bar. Based near St. Louis and serving both the metro area and Southern Illinois, Kelsie brings a unique blend of elevated hospitality, artistic flair, and personalized service to every event.

With over 10 years of bartending experience, Kelsie is more than just a bartender—she's a certified mixologist with training from industry leaders like A Bar Above and the European Bartending School. What began as a love for cooking evolved into a passion for crafting flavor-forward drinks and immersive cocktail experiences. From building custom menus to making her own syrups and garnishes, every element is designed with intention.

Kelsie’s services go beyond simply pouring drinks. Her approach combines the precision of craft cocktail technique with the warmth and style of a luxury event experience. Whether you're hosting a high-end party in Chesterfield, an intimate wedding, or a branded event in downtown St. Louis, she brings a professional presence and an unforgettable bar setup to match your vision.

Her goal is simple: to raise the bar for mobile bartending. No generic mixers or watered-down options—just carefully curated cocktails, fresh ingredients, and memorable service your guests will be talking about long after the last sip.

Clients love working with Kelsie not only for her drinks, but for her creativity, reliability, and ability to make guests feel truly welcomed. If you're searching for a female bartender for hire in the St. Louis area who knows how to deliver upscale service with a personal touch, you're in the right place.

Explore the packages to find the perfect fit—or get in touch to craft something completely custom.